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Cards specifically for interactions involving babies and toddlers, including baby talk, peek-a-boo, and singing lullabies.
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Game Guide · Together Cards
Paralives Together Cards
the social hand you play
All 442 Together Cards across 13 categories. 87 cards with success chances, 180s cooldown between uses.
Core social mechanic
How Together Cards work
When Parafolk gather, the game draws a hand of Together Cards based on their personalities, emotions, and relationships. The hand size depends on group size: 3 cards for 1-3 People, 2 cards for 4-5 People, 1 card for 6+ People. Each card has a weight that determines how likely it is to appear, and some cards require specific personality traits or emotional states.
4 weight tiers
Card weights & timing
| Tier | Weight | NPC |
|---|---|---|
| Normal | 1 | 1x |
| Important | 2 | 5x |
| Very Important | 3 | 10x |
| Extremely Important | 4 | 100x |
Cooldown: 180s between same card. Bar fill: 20 min (known) / 5 min (strangers).
Showing 13 of 13 categories.
Mechanics
Weight tiers
| Tier | Weight | NPC initiative odds |
|---|---|---|
| Normal | 1 | 1 |
| Important | 2 | 5 |
| Very Important | 3 | 10 |
| Extremely Important | 4 | 100 |
Category rankings
Biggest categories & success-chance leaders
top of the pile
Top 6 by card count
Most cards
| # | Category | cards |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | General | 130 |
| 2 | Flirty | 89 |
| 3 | Mean | 48 |
| 4 | Skills | 35 |
| 5 | Introduction | 33 |
| 6 | Baby | 24 |
Frequently asked
Together Cards FAQ
quick answers
What are Together Cards in Paralives?
Together Cards are the core social interaction system in Paralives. When two or more Parafolk are together, the game draws a hand of cards representing possible conversation topics and actions. Players pick a card to steer the interaction. There are 442 cards across 13 categories in Early Access build 1.
How many Together Card categories are there in Paralives?
There are 13 Together Card categories: General (130 cards), Flirty (89), Mean (48), Skills (35), Introduction (33), Baby (24), Funny (23), Share Tips (19), Complain (17), Relationship Milestone (9), Get to Know (6), Request (5), and Brag (4).
How does card weight affect Together Cards?
Each Together Card has a weight tier that affects how likely it is to appear. Normal cards have weight 1 and 1x NPC initiative. Important cards have weight 2 and 5x NPC initiative. Very Important cards have weight 3 and 10x NPC initiative. Extremely Important cards have weight 4 and 100x NPC initiative.
Do personality traits affect which Together Cards appear?
Yes. Some Together Cards require specific personality traits. For example, certain Introduction cards are only available to Parafolk with the Overjoyed, Serious, or Gloomy vibe traits. Personality-gated cards create more authentic social interactions tied to each character's identity.
What is the cooldown between Together Cards in Paralives?
After a Together Card is used, there is a 180-second (3-minute) cooldown before that same card can appear again. Some cards ignore or override this cooldown. The Together bar takes 20 minutes to fill for known Parafolk and only 5 minutes for strangers.