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Romantic interaction cards for flirting, complimenting appearance, confessing feelings, and building romantic relationships.

89 in the deck

Drop frequency

Weight distribution

who shows up most

Important

44

(49%)

Normal

24

(27%)

Very Important

12

(13%)

Extremely Important

9

(10%)

89 cards

All Flirty cards

the full deck

  • Ask if single (flirty)

    Type: Contextual

    NormalTargetedRequires: Other: Relationship: Not Lover

  • Flirt

    Type: Standard · Base chance: 25%

    NormalCan failTargeted

  • Mention having a good time

    Type: Standard · Base chance: 25%

    NormalCan failTargeted

  • Compliment Vibe

    Type: Standard · Base chance: 25%

    NormalCan failTargeted

  • Attempt risky pick-up line

    Type: Standard

    NormalCan failTargeted

  • Ask if they would like someone in their life

    Type: Standard · Base chance: 25%

    Extremely ImportantCan failTargeted

  • First kiss

    Type: Standard · Base chance: 999%

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Other: Relationship: Not Kissing Partners + Relationship: Romantic InterestOutcomes: Embarassed+1Outcomes: Together Card Flirty+3

  • Get intimate for the first time

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Other: Relationship: Not Intimacy Partners + Relationship: Romantic InterestOutcomes: Embarassed+1Outcomes: Together Card Flirty+3

  • Ask to be in a relationship together

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Other: Relationship: Not Lover + Relationship: Romantic InterestOutcomes: Embarassed+1Outcomes: Together Card Flirty+3

  • Introduce yourself in a flirty manner

    Type: Standard · Ignores cooldown · Cooldown: 0s · Base chance: 25%

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Good at Romantic RelationshipsOutcomes: Together Card Flirty+2

  • Ask about love life

    Type: Standard · Base chance: 25%

    NormalCan failTargeted

  • Talk about relationships

    Type: Standard · Base chance: 25%

    NormalCan failTargeted

  • Ask for dating advice

    Type: Standard · Base chance: 25%

    NormalCan failTargeted

  • Express love life goals

    Type: Standard · Base chance: 25%

    NormalCan failTargeted

  • Share detailed future love life plans

    Type: Standard · Base chance: 25%

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Serious

  • Talk about hormones and oxytocin

    Type: Standard · Base chance: 25%

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Serious

  • Share long list of criteria for ideal partner

    Type: Standard · Base chance: 25%

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Serious

  • Share complete romantic history

    Type: Standard · Base chance: 25%

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Serious

  • Get them excited about love life goals

    Type: Standard · Base chance: 25%

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Overjoyed

  • Share dream love life plans

    Type: Standard · Base chance: 25%

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Overjoyed

  • Admit being extremely attracted

    Type: Standard · Base chance: 25%

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Overjoyed

  • Share a romantic but morbid story

    Type: Standard · Base chance: 25%

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Gloomy

  • Whisper sweet nothings

    Type: Standard · Base chance: 25%

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Gloomy

  • Give gloomy compliment

    Type: Standard · Base chance: 25%

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Gloomy

  • Mock people's dating habits

    Type: Standard · Base chance: 25%

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: (Personality: Grumpy AND Personality: Gloomy)

  • Share love life goals excitedly

    Type: Standard · Base chance: 25%

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: EnergeticOutcomes: Together Bar Speed X3

  • Come up with the perfect pickup line

    Type: Standard · Base chance: 25%

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Energetic

  • Talk about romantic song

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Music

  • Talk about favorite love song

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Music

  • Talk about gaining muscle recently

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Fitness

  • Compliment muscle gain

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Fitness

  • Discuss best restaurants for first dates

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Food

  • Discuss best food for a date night

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Food

  • Talk about dating apps

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Technology

  • Debate about best “spicy” classic paintings

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: ArtRequires: Other: Personality: Art

  • Mention wanting to draw a portrait of them

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Art

  • Attempt risky flirty joke

    Type: Standard

    NormalCan failTargeted

  • Attempt to gauge interest (risky)

    Type: Standard

    NormalCan failTargeted

  • Confess attraction

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargeted

  • Mention loving spending time together

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargeted

  • Compliment personality

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargeted

  • Compliment talents and skills

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargeted

  • Hint at physical intimacy

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargeted

  • Look at tenderly

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargeted

  • Share favorite music when getting intimate

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Music

  • Talk about having romantic thoughts when listening to music

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Music

  • Brag about being in shape

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Fitness

  • Hint at physical attraction

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Fitness

  • Mention wanting to cook for them

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Food

  • Joke about them looking tasty

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Food

  • Discuss the role of technology in modern relationships

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Technology

  • Joke about wanting to ''study'' their curves

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Art

  • Mention being artistically inspired by them

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Art

  • Compliment outfit (flirty)

    Type: Contextual

    NormalCan failTargeted

  • Compliment hairstyle (flirty)

    Type: Contextual

    NormalCan failTargeted

  • Compliment mood (flirty)

    Type: Contextual

    NormalCan failTargeted

  • Compliment muscles (flirty)

    Type: Contextual

    NormalCan failTargeted

  • Impress with charismatic pickup line

    Type: Standard

    NormalCan failTargeted

  • Impress with good physique

    Type: Standard

    NormalCan failTargeted

  • Impress with creativity

    Type: Standard

    NormalCan failTargeted

  • Impress intellectually

    Type: Standard

    NormalCan failTargeted

  • Propose

    Type: Standard

    Extremely ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: ((Relationship: Lover))Outcomes: Together Card Embarassed+2Outcomes: Together Card Flirty+2Outcomes: Together Card Happy+2

  • Invite to move in

    Type: Standard

    Extremely ImportantCan failTargetedOutcomes: Together Card Embarassed+2Outcomes: Together Card Flirty+2

  • Ask if they want to try for a baby NOW

    Type: Standard

    Extremely ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: ((Relationship: Lover))Outcomes: Together Card Embarassed+2Outcomes: Together Card Flirty+2

  • Propose (with ring)

    Type: Standard

    Extremely ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Other: Relationship: Lover + Relationship: Not [Fiancée|Fiancé|Betrothed]Outcomes: Together Card Flirty+2Outcomes: Together Card Happy+2Outcomes: Together Card Embarassed+2

  • Offer flowers

    Type: Response

    Very ImportantCan failTargeted

  • Say “I love you”

    Type: Standard

    Very ImportantTargeted

  • Go for a passionate kiss

    Type: Standard

    Very ImportantTargetedOutcomes: Together Card Embarassed+1Outcomes: Just Got Intimate Or Kissed

  • Reminisce about first meeting

    Type: Standard

    Very ImportantTargeted

  • Talk about time spent together

    Type: Standard

    Very ImportantTargeted

  • Enjoy romantic time playing music together

    Type: Standard

    Very ImportantTargetedRequires: Other: Relationship: Lover + Personality: MusicRequires: Personality: Music

  • Enjoy romantic time exercising together

    Type: Standard

    Very ImportantTargetedRequires: Personality: FitnessRequires: Other: Relationship: Lover + Personality: Fitness

  • Enjoy romantic time using technology together

    Type: Standard

    Very ImportantTargetedRequires: Personality: TechnologyRequires: Other: Relationship: Lover + Personality: Technology

  • Enjoy romantic time making art together

    Type: Standard

    Very ImportantTargetedRequires: Personality: ArtRequires: Other: Relationship: Lover + Personality: Art

  • Wink knowingly

    Type: Standard

    Very ImportantTargeted

  • Say they'd make a good co-parent

    Type: Standard

    Extremely ImportantTargetedRequires: Other: Relationship: Lover + Personality: Good with FamilyOutcomes: Happy+2Outcomes: Flirty+2

  • Express how you'll always be there for them

    Type: Standard

    Extremely ImportantTargetedRequires: Personality: Good at Taking Care of OthersOutcomes: Happy+2Outcomes: Flirty+2

  • Declare unending love

    Type: Standard

    Extremely ImportantTargetedRequires: Personality: Good at Romantic RelationshipsRequires: Personality: OverjoyedOutcomes: Happy+3Outcomes: Flirty+3

  • Flirt expertly

    Type: Standard · Cooldown: 300s

    Extremely ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Expert Flirt

  • Tell Interesting Date Story

    Type: Standard

    Very ImportantRequires: Personality: Good at Romantic RelationshipsOutcomes: Together Card Flirty+1

  • Share romantic weekend idea

    Type: Standard

    Very ImportantRequires: Personality: Good at Romantic RelationshipsOutcomes: Together Card Flirty+1

  • Random Secret Crush

    Type: Response

    NormalRequires: Other: Personality: Good at Romantic Relationships

  • Compliment existential dread (flirty)

    Type: Contextual

    NormalCan failTargetedRequires: Other: Emotion: SadOutcomes: Together Card Flirty+2

  • Flirt “as a joke”

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: Jester

  • Joke about dating (risky)

    Type: Standard

    ImportantCan failTargetedRequires: Personality: JesterRequires: Emotion: AmusedOutcomes: Embarassed+5

  • Ask if they want to have children together in the future

    Type: Contextual

    NormalCan failTargetedRequires: Other: Relationship: Lover + Relationship: Not Prospective Co-ParentOutcomes: Together Card Embarassed+2Outcomes: Together Card Flirty+4

  • Propose

    Type: Contextual

    NormalCan failTargetedRequires: Other: Relationship: Lover + Relationship: Not [Fiancée|Fiancé|Betrothed] + Relationship: Not SpouseOutcomes: Together Card Embarassed+2Outcomes: Together Card Flirty+2Outcomes: Together Card Happy+2

  • Invite to move in

    Type: Contextual

    NormalCan failTargetedRequires: Other: Relationship: LoverOutcomes: Together Card Flirty+4Outcomes: Together Card Embarassed+2

  • Slow dance

    Type: Standard

    ImportantTargetedOutcomes: Together Card Flirty+2

72 CARDS CAN FAIL

Success Chance Modifiers

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Cards marked “can fail” roll their base chance plus every matching modifier below. Positive values raise the odds, negative values lower them - all in percentage points.

Flirt

used by 56 cards in this category

+25 Flirt Success+25%

+15 Charisma >= 4

+10 Compatible Vibe Trait

+10 Romantic Relationship Tip

+10 Expert Relationship Tip

+10 Good at Romantic Relationships

+10 Charisma = 3

+5 Romantic Interest (per level)

+5 Talent

+5 target is Flirty

+5 Ex-Lover

+5 Charisma = 2

+3 Friend (per level)

+3 Coworker (per level)

+3 Household Member (per level)

+3 target is Amused

+3 target is Happy

+2 From Get To Know

+1 Good At Making Friends

+1 Sad

+1 Angry

+1 Target Sad

+1 Target Angry

-3 Embarrassed

-3 Uncomfortable

-3 Uncomfortable

-3 Embarrassed

-10 Enemy

-10 Charisma = 0

-10 Good at Nothing

-10 Good at Nothing

-20 Incompatible Vibe Trait

-25 They Dont Know Each Other

Risky Flirt

used by 4 cards in this category

+25 Flirt Success+25%

+15 Charisma >= 4

+10 Compatible Vibe Trait

+10 Romantic Relationship Tip

+10 Expert Relationship Tip

+10 Good at Romantic Relationships

+10 Charisma = 3

+5 Romantic Interest (per level)

+5 Talent

+5 target is Flirty

+5 Ex-Lover

+5 Charisma = 2

+3 Friend (per level)

+3 Coworker (per level)

+3 Household Member (per level)

+3 target is Amused

+3 target is Happy

+2 From Get To Know

+1 Sad

+1 Angry

+1 Target Sad

+1 Target Angry

+1 Good At Making Friends

-3 Embarrassed

-3 Uncomfortable

-3 Uncomfortable

-3 Embarrassed

-10 Good at Nothing

-10 Good at Nothing

-10 Enemy

-10 Charisma = 0

-20 Incompatible Vibe Trait

Confirm Relationship

used by 3 cards in this category

+15 Romantic Interest (per level)

+15 Already Had Physical Intimacy

+15 Charisma >= 4

+10 Good at Romantic Relationships

+10 Ex-Lover

+10 Target Had Promotion

+10 Charisma = 3

+5 Charisma = 2

+3 Happy

+3 Inspired

+3 Amused

+1 Sad

+1 Angry

+1 Target Sad

+1 Target Angry

-3 Embarrassed

-3 Uncomfortable

-3 Uncomfortable

-3 Embarrassed

-10 Enemy

-10 Good at Nothing

-10 Good at Nothing

-10 Charisma = 0

Flirty Introduction

used by 1 cards in this category

+25 Flirt Success+25%

+15 Charisma >= 4

+10 Charisma = 3

+10 Compatible Vibe Trait

+10 Romantic Relationship Tip

+10 Expert Relationship Tip

+10 Good at Romantic Relationships

+5 Charisma = 2

+5 Romantic Interest (per level)

+5 Talent

+5 target is Flirty

+5 Ex-Lover

+3 Friend (per level)

+3 Coworker (per level)

+3 Household Member (per level)

+3 target is Amused

+3 target is Happy

+2 From Get To Know

+1 Sad

+1 Angry

+1 Good At Making Friends

+1 Target Sad

+1 Target Angry

-3 Embarrassed

-3 Uncomfortable

-3 Uncomfortable

-3 Embarrassed

-10 Charisma = 0

-10 Good at Nothing

-10 Enemy

-10 Good at Nothing

-20 Incompatible Vibe Trait

Commit Relationship

used by 7 cards in this category

+20 Lover (per level)

+15 Charisma >= 4

+10 Good at Romantic Relationships

+10 Ex-Lover

+10 Target Had Promotion

+10 Charisma = 3

+5 Charisma = 2

+3 Happy

+3 Inspired

+3 Amused

+1 Sad

+1 Angry

+1 Target Sad

+1 Target Angry

-3 Embarrassed

-3 Uncomfortable

-3 Uncomfortable

-3 Embarrassed

-10 Enemy

-10 Good at Nothing

-10 Good at Nothing

-10 Charisma = 0

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Frequently asked

Flirty FAQ

quick answers

  • How many flirty Together Cards are in Paralives?
    There are 89 flirty Together Cards in Paralives Early Access build 1. 72 of these cards have a success chance and can fail.
  • What do flirty cards do in Paralives?
    Romantic interaction cards for flirting, complimenting appearance, confessing feelings, and building romantic relationships.
  • Can flirty cards fail in Paralives?
    Yes - 72 of 89 flirty cards have a success chance. When a card fails, the outcome differs from success, often applying different status effects or conversation tags.
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